tisdag 20 maj 2008

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If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow
your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship
that’s not meant to be.
Slower is better. Never live your life for a man
before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not
treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t
”be friends.”
A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend. Don’t settle. If
you feel like he is stringing you along, then he
probably is.’
Don’t stay because you think ”it will get better.”
You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying
when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is
you.
Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of
different women. He didn’t marry them when he got them
pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If
something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know
everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a
man’s behavior.
Change comes from within.
Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you
are... even if he has more education or in a better
job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else’s man.
If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to
treat you.
All men are NOT dogs
You should not be the one doing all the
bending...compromise is two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is
nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues
before pursuing a new relationship You should never
look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship
consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone
complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr.
Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know
where you are, and your always readily available to
him – he takes it for granted.
Never move into his mother’s house. Never co-sign for
a man. (Hallelujah, thank you Jesus!) Don’t fully
commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that
you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Share this with other ladies..... You’ll make someone
smile, another rethink her choices, and another woman
prepare.. They say it takes a minute to find a special
person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them
and an entire lifetime to forget them.

håller kanske inte med om allt, men lägger den här så jag kan läsa när jag behöver det

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